Do you love me, or do you really love my brain ;-) ?

A friend of mine lately keeps telling me "you and your words! you have a way with words!" People have told me that for years, honestly it's all I know. That's just how I was raised. My mother instilled in me the art of empowering, encouraging, rejecting, praising, dismissing, loving, and checking someone only using a few (well chosen words) words. I've seen that woman dismiss someone with a smile on her face and the person didn't know they were being put back in their place until 15 minutes later. I've adopted that way with words as well simply because its fun. You throw a few well chosen above average words in a simple conversation and you will have people think about you for at least half of the day simply because they wanna pick ya brain, and that's what I like. I love it when a man is attracted to me because of my looks but that doesn't keep me satisfied. I welcome any man who attempts to get to know my brain versus simply staring at my ass and my lips all day (that gets annoying). I take pride in my vast knowledge of everything (yes I know everything....sub-consciously lol), and I adore a guy who takes pride in my brain too ;-). I also love a guy who understands the art of an double entendre.
Oh yeah I'm 20 lbs down!!! holla!!!

You Can Love Me Forever and Always (YCLMFA), You betta lud dis brain boy!

10, 10, 10, and 20 makes 50....

So I've been away for some time, yes I know I've been neglecting my blog like a bad parent! I've just finished reading the 50 Shades of Grey trilogy. In the beginning of the series I was very much into the book I came home at night and read it over watching my prime time shows. I begin to relate to one of the main characters on some levels. That need for more information, the thought of getting lost in a book versus reality, and the part of me that allows my subconscious to mock me at every turn and force me to second guess myself. As I got to the second book (50 Shades Darker) I zoomed past that one too, and I began to become more and more upset with the negative attention the book is getting. The trilogy is based on S&M (I forget the appropriate term) meaning that's what the story line is based off of. The books don't go in depth in the world of S&M they just touch the basics and explain to why a particular character is into this sexual scene. Although by the last book I was less and less interested in it. It became more of a "Lifetime" story, and it took me like 2 1/2 weeks to get through it. All in all i feel the third book fell short of the prior ones. I know this was a sucky review of the book, but this is all I really want to say on it right now.

You Can Love Me Forever and Always (YCLMFA), 50 shades style.